I’m shamelessly stealing that person idea, because I think it’s an interesting question.

Personally I’m into porn involving some forms of abuse, often it’s rape but it could also be just spanking or gaslight. Of course I’m not into that in real life. I know CNC is a thing, same with consensual SM and I could be into trying those one day, but I don’t see myself doing that with my husband anytime soon, and it’s different when it’s planned in advance, which is not always the case in the story presented in porn.

  • MassiveCum@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    3 days ago

    Facials and grandmas.

    I like the idea of nutting on someone’s face but I feel like doing it in some kind of hole feels better and less of a mess.

    As for grandmas it’s not something I regularly watch and I feel like actually being there, feeling the sag, and not wanting to do something like shatter their pelvis would put me off

  • loopedcandle@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    2 months ago

    Any situation with more than 2 people. I love the idea of groups or swinging, but IRL I am a very awkward human - couldn’t do it even if presented with the opportunity. And I have no interest in anyone besides my partner.

    I’ll leave that one to fantasy-land.

  • HotCoupleSD1959@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    9 days ago

    I think it would be like those exagerated athletic movements in porn (mostly in harcore videos). They look good in porn, but in reality they are very tiring or borderline impossible for a common person.

  • dugmeup@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    2 months ago

    99% of it . … I want to have a great time and want my partner to have a great time. I also don’t want to bang relatives or plumbers or realtors or any myriad of professionals. So yeah porn stays in the land of fantasy and I can be inspired but mostly leave it there

  • southsamurai@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
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    2 months ago

    Man, I’ve become rather unfond of porn at all. I’ve gotten to the point that it’s written erotica and fantasy for me. Porn has gotten so ugly so often that it’s all just offputting for me.

    That being said, back when I did use porn, it was anal. It’s one of those things that is very rarely on my list of things to do (for my own pleasure, I’ll do it if a partner wants it), but it uses to be arousing because of the implied openness and trust (which, I know, isn’t the case in porn, but that’s the part that makes me willing to do it irl). It’s the idea of “oh, I’ll share everything with you” that’s interesting about it in porn.

    Irl, I still get turned on by that idea, but anal itself is not anywhere near as enjoyable as vaginal sex. To the contrary, sometimes it’s distinctly unenjoyable for various reasons.

  • Nuke_the_whales@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    2 months ago

    Big age gap.

    Though as I get older, it’s becoming less of a fantasy and more of a reality. Thought about this a few months back after hooking with a woman who was 20 years my junior. I’ve become that guy and I’m pulling back on it

    • K.K.@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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      2 months ago

      I mean hey, I thought that might be the case for me, but uh… one thing led to another and it turns out sucking a cock in real life is incredibly hot. YMMV though 😅

        • K.K.@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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          2 months ago

          I’m glad it worked out for you!!! My partner is also encouraging. Good reminder to be incredibly thankful we have them in our lives ❤️