Relevant to your interests: As a straight, male mountain biker, I swear like three quarters of the cute women I meet and get interested in are lesbians. (And the other 25% are out biking with their husband, boyfriend, etc.)
That’s why I bring the cute women mountain biking, and then they complain when we have to bike up a hill…
That kind of thing happened to me in college turns out I’m just trans with a spot on gaydar
it amazes me how people find partners outside of big cities
How would one find a partner in a big city?
Bars
Shared interest groups
Your friend introduced you
In that order
And I think specifically bars, not clubs. You won’t be able to have a conversation with someone in a club, though if you are stand out attractive, that probably doesn’t matter
If you’re a drinker, sure
You don’t have to drink, it’s just that’s where people are.
Most big cities have dedicated places for finding a partner. For butch lesbians, it’s Home Depot. For everyone else, try a bar maybe?
That also amazes me.
Don’t they all live in Lesbos?
On Lesvos. It’s an island.
And if you live somewhere like New Zealand that little sliver doesn’t exist either
Well shit I live in Germany and was very much considering fleeing to NZ if the right wing parties get any bigger and Russia gets closer to defeating Ukraine. I heard Auckland is one of the gayest cities in the world so that’s where I was planning to go. Is it really that hard to find other lesbians over there?
You finally meet one who lives within 30 miles of you and she’s femme4femme
My pie is reversed but I’m a cis dude.
Befriend them
why are you researching their natural habitats?