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Cake day: September 14th, 2024

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  • Discord is commonly abhorred by the FOSS community as it’s commonly referred to as “the place where information is lost forever” so why would Signal be any better?

    The reason why I bring this up is because you (an hour old account) are posting this on a fediverse forum where knowledge is more readily available for the public to share and learn from.

    So no offence but I personally find it difficult to see as to why anyone should trust this on first glance.







  • Huh in that case I wonder if both instance and defederation works by sort of pausing/suspending the new content updates.

    Sort of like how Newpipe works is that new content could be available on your home/sub feed but won’t show up unless explicitly updated (by swiping down). Although for this analogy to work, banning would be equivalent to a filter/block in Voyager although it’ll only work for newer content?🤔

    That’s my new guess anyways, not sure if it’ll help!😅🤗



  • It’s almost like their new posts are “defederated” from my home instance.

    That part is odd and I don’t really have a good guess or assumption as to why that’s happening.

    The posts they make are in a federated community with my home instance. I’d bet if they replied to this comment, I wouldn’t see their reply. (assuming this comment is even visible to them).

    As far as I understand the system; banned users shouldn’t be able to make comments on a home instance their banned from unless something is broken or has been deliberately been changed.


  • Personally I don’t think that you’re asking for too much as relationships should be reciprocal in both love and effort.

    Unfortunately it does sound like he’s lost interest as they’re unwilling in wanting to communicate which is one of the most crucial things in a relationship.

    I’m sorry to hear that you’ve been doing all the hard lifting and that he’s unwilling to reciprocate in celebrating your birthday and trying to maintain the relationship.

    I’m no romatic relationship expert but my recommendation is to take some time to consider moving on as this doesn’t sound healthy nor sustainable.

    I’d also recommend in talking more with your friend about this and seeing what they think as they probably know you best.

    Whatever path you take, power to you!✊🌻