Yes.

Quick in the morning, but in the evening after even a couple of beers, so much endurance I tap out. Which is sort of bad as I find it so much easier to get off (and again, and again) in the afternoon or evening, but then get so tired, oof.

If he wants to go a long time he says Viagra and some drinks. I guess that is both relaxed and propped up. I asked about intensity but he says always about the same.

A little worse for oral, just less familiar with it, a little better for PIV, more slip less friction. Marginal difference but slight advantage team intact.

Sort of the opposite. I have finished him that way when it’s gone on long enough I’m sure I am not going to cum anymore, but otherwise no, if short on time would rather do something we both get something out of. So our quickies are PIV - occasionally I don’t get off if it is really quick but in that case (since it doesn’t happen often) the frustration usually makes the next time better.

30 or 32d or dd I would guess. They fit the rest of you, so proportionate size is another way to put it.

We have sex at least once a day, every day since we got together. Once you start you may not want to stop, it’s great.

I want to modify no shave November and stop plucking my legs so they can heal - it was my workaround to stop other crappy anxious habits.

I think it’s good to do oddball fast, always do a Dry July, no drinking, and a no Amazon August, no online buying of anything. It’s kind of impossible to do either once the holiday season starts, so good to sort of reset. Would never fast from sex though, not voluntarily.

I don’t think it looks that weird. I would say just shave the parts you want & trim the parts you want. Husband shaves balls but trims the rest, it’s fine except day-of (sharp stubble is rough) but he has finer textured hair. I (F) just shave everything down there because we haven’t had funds for waxing but my hair is more coarse so it’s an every day or two thing.

Basically I think even a kind of sudden transition won’t look silly, pubes are already a transition if you leave them alone, unless you really have a pelt.

It is so fuzzy, can’t tell but I don’t think anyone is that smooth. The shape is probably just her posture, throwing her butt back.

Literally, lol.

I like my (small) boobs best naked, overall I think my build looks best without clothes, the horizontal lines and slight squish irritate me, I hate putting on a swimsuit and looking worse instead of better. Jeans and T-shirt, that stuff looks fine, my husband once remarked that I looked the same dressed and undressed, which was a funny comment but it’s true.

Big boobs look better to me when supported though, that shape in a good bra is so pretty. Guys often look better in clothing even if they look good naked too. Clothing is decoration and naked is plain, maybe you just enjoy bodies adorned with clothes.

Boob twins! Small don’t fall, sister! If you don’t like them now you will in a few years :)

I don’t quite understand thinking fake images are hot as fuck, they aren’t real?

But you aren’t hurting anyone, your friends need to chill. Enjoying the life you have is a good life, by definition. You don’t have to decide what you are doing for your whole life right now either, if you change your mind later you can change your life then.

Oh, so more like you are asking how actualized are your kinks? I think that is a good question. I spent a stupid long time waiting for my sexuality to evolve and turn into what I considered the ‘real’ adult woman sexuality, which involved getting off on taking charge. Like, even though my very earliest sexual fantasies were about being forced (not even sexually, necessarily) and never about anything except that power play stuff, I really truly thought I ought not want it, that it was some sort of unfinished or lazy thing. One day had a revelation that if any of my friends had some kink I’d be so accepting of them, never ever would I think they needed to change, so tried to give myself the same consideration, and am much more in alignment now. So in the scale of acceptance, maybe 8 or so. But I do not agree that everyone ‘vanilla’ is repressing hidden depths of perversity. I think many, probably most people really aren’t. Even those with a healthy sex drive. And no way does everyone have the same levels of general need, it took me 40 years to find a guy who runs as hot as me, get it every day now for about 15 years :)

So you would put more people as kinky because you think most are repressing very dark shit? Maybe, but seems like most people I know kind of don’t care that much about sex, if that makes sense. If it’s more like violence that just sometimes finds a sexual outlet, is that even kinky?

The 1-5 I’d put as:

1 is asexual, do not even feel desire at all.

2 the demisexual who can kinda enjoy it if you do but really are just doing it for someone else they wouldn’t bother for themselves.

3 the people who have to be in love to feel sexual desire, they can be ‘unlocked’, basically, it’s just part of love to them. May actually do more variety of stuff but only for someone else, really do not feel independent sexual desire but love and sex entwined.

4 I think of as the normal people who can enjoy sex as an activity, outside of a relationship just for physical pleasure but it doesn’t pull at them so hard, and they don’t want unusual stuff just sex. Probably don’t seek out sex specifically, but dates,

5 the normal people who are more adventurous, and who get frustrated sooner, have a more active sex drive and will seek out sex partners, will go outside their comfort zone if a partner suggests it. Sexually active normal people I don’t think of as kinky.

I just think probably a very large chunk of people just don’t prioritize sex or need anything very specific.

6. I’ve done and enjoyed stuff I think most people haven’t, and a slap is still faster than a kiss and none of my fantasies are about plain sex, but I enjoy plain sex every day, and counting down I think that:

10 is people who want something that will kill them or someone else.

9 is people who want something that would land them in jail, or literal fetishists who get off on something that doesn’t include what most of us think of as sex, and only that.

8 is people who need something other than plain sex or can enjoy things that most of us find too gross

7 is people who identify mostly as their kink but can enjoy sex without it

Which would leave me at 6. I think way more people are in the 1-5 group than the 6-10 group, it’s not an even distribution. If you are asking where I’d land in the general population of women, that would probably be a different answer.

Best part of any sort of swinging is the 1 on 1 with your own love afterwards. I think that’s something who never tried don’t understand. It concentrates your pleasure together way more than it dilutes it.

This is so close to being a limerick

There once was a dude in the bed

Who begged and begged and begged

For his girlfriend to shit him…

I think most people’s sexuality does evolve over time, and kinky or open-minded people might go through phases of really being into something.

But a fetish, like something that develops early and the person needs it? I’m not sure. That seems like asking if I could stop needing to be heterosexual, more than asking if I could give up wanting to be dominated.

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I never waited for sex, my feeling is that I want a man who likes sex, not a man who is into “the chase”, and I value sexual chemistry, and feel the physical intimacy is the shallower level of intimacy. It certainly has not prevented me from finding good long term guys, no. I had one 20 year run, and have been with my husband for about 12 years now.

I guess I am way more interested in weeding out those guys who like the buildup better than sex, because they are the ones who lose interest after you have sex, or who think the first time is the best.

This is probably mine too. 0 to fisting while fighting back was so intense, just knowing I couldn’t stop it. I don’t even really like the fisting (when the guy pops his hand back out it is unsettlingly close feeling to childbirth) but he knew it was the far edge of what I am willing to do. We didn’t work it all out ahead of time as we had a lot of experience with each other.

It is both hot and sexy and also upsetting and cathartic and just overall a peak experience.