I mean, these are the traits that turn porn into a bad addiction and form those “sigma”/misogyny mindsets. The idea is to not have a “vs” but to identify the two as separate, and find someone that is fulfilling in your life as opposed to fulfilling a fictional fantasy. Porn actresses do this for money. They don’t do it for you, or to be a role model.

One day you’ll realize that what strangers say and do on the Internet doesn’t matter. There are more important things to worry about, and you should look to better yourself before lashing out at others. Namaste, my friend.