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Cake day: June 11th, 2023

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  • I’ve been engaged in chastity consistently for about 15 years now. I’ve tried tons of different cages and products, have had a few different keyholders, some who I lived with and a couple times who lived in the same city but weren’t engaged with me romantically or sexually.

    The device I’m currently locked in, that I’ve realized I can literally keep on indefinitely is a titanium Bijou with a special key that you can’t replicate or force open. I can clean it effectively without taking it off with a small amount effort and a tiny brush.

    Currently I’m self-locked. I use a metal timed lock box to hold my key (with an emergency key held by a friend). Every day I have to spin a wheel with various times on it. 60% of the wheel consists of “skip” which means I don’t have to add any time to my lock box. The other 40% consist of 1 day, 3 days, 5 days and 7 days of added time.

    I started my current lock cycle at 7 days, and have gotten very unlucky, as I’m currently at 40 days with it on, and another 8 days on the timer. Every one of those 8 days now has a chance to add even more time. At one point I managed to get down to 5 days before getting two 7 days in a row!

    It’s been fun, and since I’m no longer having sex and the cage is perfectly comfortable all the time, it’s fun to see how long it will take.




  • When I go to a nudist or naturalist resort, I take it off, as honestly, IMHO, showing people your cage in a non-sexualized arena like a nude beach is not cool.

    However, I’ve gone to sexualised nude hot springs, and other areas where I have worn it. I’ve also done quite a number of scenes where I as the sub never got let out of my cage at all, and got tied up and beaten nude with cage on in front of hundreds of people.

    All that said, I’m also not an exhibitionist so to me it was just natural to be wearing it, as I always wear it. It’s just a part of who I am.