Agent641@lemmy.world to Comic Strips@lemmy.world · 7 months agoWhats the worst that could happen?lemmy.worldimagemessage-square13fedilinkarrow-up10arrow-down10
arrow-up10arrow-down1imageWhats the worst that could happen?lemmy.worldAgent641@lemmy.world to Comic Strips@lemmy.world · 7 months agomessage-square13fedilink
minus-squareNythos@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up1·7 months agoSimply asking someone for their number is not harassment. Repeatedly asking for someone’s number after being told no is. There isn’t any nuance to this situation.
minus-squarequindraco@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up0·7 months agoTelling someone they’re beautiful when they think you’re gross is creepy/harassment.
minus-squaredfc09@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up0·7 months ago“when they think you’re gross” How can I know if someone thinks I’m gross if I haven’t spoken to them yet? I should just assume I’m gross, always?
minus-squarequindraco@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up0·7 months agoThat’s the fun part, you can’t. Don’t assume they think you’re gross, but do remember that you don’t know what they think.
minus-squareAVincentInSpace@pawb.sociallinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·edit-27 months agoBut if I tell them they’re beautiful and it turns out they think I’m gross I could go to prison for harassment! Am I really just supposed to roll the dice like that?
minus-squarequindraco@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up0·edit-27 months agoHarassment isn’t a crime, so you’re probably safe from prison.
minus-squareThorny_Insight@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up0·7 months agoIt’s okay to talk to women if you’re a male model but stay the fuck away if you aren’t. Got it.
minus-squarequindraco@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up0·edit-27 months agoOr a female model. I’m certainly not here to discourage lesbians!
minus-squareRealFknNito@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·7 months agoI hope you just have a feminine sounding name and you’re not a real life woman with this opinion.
minus-squaregarbagebagel@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·edit-27 months agoOooo are we gendering usernames now? Do mine!
minus-squareRealFknNito@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·7 months agoGarbage is definitely masculine and bagel is pretty neutral and taking into account everyone online is a guy, definitely a guy.
No, it is.
Simply asking someone for their number is not harassment.
Repeatedly asking for someone’s number after being told no is.
There isn’t any nuance to this situation.
Telling someone they’re beautiful when they think you’re gross is creepy/harassment.
“when they think you’re gross”
How can I know if someone thinks I’m gross if I haven’t spoken to them yet? I should just assume I’m gross, always?
That’s the fun part, you can’t. Don’t assume they think you’re gross, but do remember that you don’t know what they think.
But if I tell them they’re beautiful and it turns out they think I’m gross I could go to prison for harassment! Am I really just supposed to roll the dice like that?
Harassment isn’t a crime, so you’re probably safe from prison.
It’s okay to talk to women if you’re a male model but stay the fuck away if you aren’t. Got it.
Or a female model. I’m certainly not here to discourage lesbians!
I hope you just have a feminine sounding name and you’re not a real life woman with this opinion.
Oooo are we gendering usernames now? Do mine!
Garbage is definitely masculine and bagel is pretty neutral and taking into account everyone online is a guy, definitely a guy.