Say hypothetically I’ve already shot my shot and was shot down, how would I go about getting over this (without rebounding to other people or whatever)?

Edit: Thanks everyone, for all the comments, support, and advice! Majority rules a tie between time and distractions lol. Seriously though thanks y’all

  • captainskipper@lemmy.ml
    17·
    3 months ago

    Absolutely. You should go ahead and find out any little detail. It’s best to follow them around so you don’t miss anything.

    To get over them, of course.

    • Call me Lenny/Leni@lemm.eeEnglish
      2·
      3 months ago

      Non-intrusively at least. I didn’t mean it like “pry into them” or anything. But it’s safe to say that feeling a certain way about absolutely everything about someone is so unlikely that being too drawn to someone is a sign of the other person’s shallowness, whether that’s intentional or not.