• Zloubida@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    Not all handicaps are visible. I know someone, quite young (mid-30s) and very healthy-looking. But she has a bad tension: if she stays standing for too long, it’s very uncomfortable and she may even faint. Older people feel entitled to take her seat and don’t understand when she refuse.

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      6 months ago

      If someone is taking a spot I’m going to default with the assumption that they need it for some reason. It’s an honor code and you hope most using the spaces aren’t abusing the privilege.

    • yetiftw@lemmy.world
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      6 months ago

      as a college student with arthritis I feel this one. still haven’t gotten used to asking for a seat on the bus