• vzq@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 months ago

    If Italian people were offended by this

    “If” an Italian was, and told you, you’d explain to him he isn’t really offended, like you’re doing now. Because that’s what you are doing after an Italian told you to knock this shit off.

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      3 months ago

      I’m pretty sure any reasonable Italian would just ignore it and move on.

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        3 months ago

        Or they would cooka da meatball and move on

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        3 months ago

        Which is what I do 99% of the time.

        Not this time. This time I speak my piece.

        Also, your “if you complain about prejudice you are not reasonable” is not appreciated. It’s straight up abuser talk.

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      3 months ago

      Would you mind telling me why you are offended by this?

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          3 months ago

          Just how is “I cooka da meatball” harmful?

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            3 months ago

            It kinda contributes to the derogatory stereotypes that are already quite widespread in certain cultures about Italians, i.e., uneducated people who can’t speak a language and talk like super mario and whose life is basically about food.

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              3 months ago

              I highly respect Italians for their delicious food. I have never heard of someone making fun of Italians for that.

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                Technically you are falling for the positive stereotype fallacy, like saying Asians are good at math or the endowment of black males doesn’t count as prejudice because those are “good things”. Same boat as the Model Minority myth for East Asians.

                People from those cultures may lean into those positive stereotypes or be less bothered by them, but they are still a prejudice. They also make it a little easier for less positive stereotypes to be believed by less educated or less tolerant people.

                That said, as an Italian American you can pry my cooking stereotypes from my cold dead hands.

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                  3 months ago

                  That makes sense, thanks for pointing out my fallacy.

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                You miss the point, and the point is that Italians are stereotyped as ignorant who only think about food. This has nothing to do with Italian food itself.