It’s an actual thing. When it feels more like you have a teenage son than a partner it’s hard to get turned on by them, even if you weren’t already too exhausted from clearing up after them.

Could be either, could be a bit of both. Hard to say really. My guess is the last one.

Now go do your chores, you lazy little hottie.

This could be climate-related. She might mean you’re working too hard and need to cool off. Try to stay hydrated out there because you’re looking hot.

In my experience it’s both 😁