Need this nationwide. I hate having fees added on to the price of what I’m ordering.

  • Thorny_Insight@lemm.ee
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    4 months ago

    This might be a weird question but when people tip for a good service, what exactly is good service?

    If I go to a restaurant I expect them to take my order, bring me the food and when I’m done bring me the check. That’s it. I want nothing else from them. Should I tip them for not spitting in my food or not stumbling and throwing it all over my clothes?

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      4 months ago

      If I go to a restaurant I expect them to take my order, bring me the food and when I’m done bring me the check. That’s it.

      I’ve been to a Michelin Star restaurant where a pair of waiters were constantly hovering over your table to clean it and refill drinks and offer provide conversation.

      The chef comes by and makes a presentation of every dish (the bananas foster was practically a magic act, the way they assembled the meal and then light it on fire). The staff practically wingman for you, if you’ve got a date. Everyone is beautiful and charming.

      But that was something like $300/person just for the table, with 20% gratuity as a fixed fee on the final bill.

      There are lots of restaurants that don’t charge through the nose for the meal but offer comparable service. Charming friendly waiters who weedle your favorite food and give excellent recommendations. Staff that sing or make clever jokes or entertain small children or share a cocktail with you at the table. I know a few high end restaurants in Houston that will try to pouch waiters from one another because they’re friends with particularly wealthy regulars.

      You see less of that now (at least in the states) because individual waiters are expected to cover more tables, turnover is more important than relationship building, and the quality of food has taken a real nosedive as we replace professional chefs with meals made in microwaves.

      Now a tip is much more like a Coperto - a cover charge for seating - than gratuity for exceptional service.

  • SeaJ@lemm.ee
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    4 months ago

    “If it’s in the core price of the menu, there will be a pullback” in patrons’ spending, she told NPR shortly before the attorney general released the guidelines. "There are some people, I think, that are hoping that the restaurants will just absorb that cost, because we’ve seen people say, ‘Oh, it’s too expensive with the service charge.’ "

    If you add bullshit charges that are not added into the price on the menu, I don’t return ever. So you may lose a couple patrons initially but they’ll be back once they understand that is the general price. You will also get me back since there is no more possibility of bullshit charges.

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      4 months ago

      Oh, so you mean people won’t order your food if they know what the real price is? Well… fuck you

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        4 months ago

        More that sticker shock will keep people from ordering an appetizer with a main meal if everything is $2-3 more expensive than when they last visited

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    4 months ago

    Do it like in Europe. Prices are all inclusive, any kind of tip is just a thank you for outstanding service, and not a necessity so the waitress won’t starve.

    It is a sales business with service, like buying clothes. Can you imagine having to tip the salesperson in a boutique?

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      It really depends on the country. France and Belgium, as you wrote. Germany, they expect a tip and look at you angry if you don’t. Italy, they add a service charge at the end that is nowhete advertised. Turkey, they invent a random price at the end, complaints only taken if you’re local. (I’m slightly exaggerating)

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        4 months ago

        Italy, they add a service charge at the end that is nowhete advertised.

        It’s called the Pane & Coperto (or just Coperto Fee) and typically amounts to a cover charge to enter, regardless of what you order.

        Honestly not the worst way to run a restaurant, given that every table costs some baseline amount of labor and resources to tend.